{"id":2159,"date":"2016-04-12T03:47:19","date_gmt":"2016-04-12T10:47:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vnhelp.org\/blog\/?p=2159"},"modified":"2025-02-03T21:21:56","modified_gmt":"2025-02-03T21:21:56","slug":"essay-recipient-vnhelp-scholarship-program","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vnhelp.org\/vi\/essay-recipient-vnhelp-scholarship-program\/","title":{"rendered":"Essay by a recipient of Scholarship Program"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Please scroll down for the English version<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><b>B\u00e0i lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n D\u01b0\u01a1ng &#8211; SV Khoa C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c Tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110H S\u01b0 Ph\u1ea1m K\u1ef9 Thu\u1eadt SG kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc 2015 &#8211; 2019<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Em mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh em. Khi em l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c th\u00ec em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m v\u00e0 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng: ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi em ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u1ea3ng 20 ng\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf em ra \u0111i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00ec l\u00fd do g\u00ec. R\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3, ba em c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 em, b\u1ecf con ra \u0111i, b\u1ecf c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 ra \u0111i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean c\u1edb t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, em lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y em \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh em, h\u1ecfi b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i em, h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 em, h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh em trong m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5y n\u0103m qua l\u00e0: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao cha, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf con?\u201d. T\u1edbi nay c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. 18 n\u0103m qua, cha m\u1eb9 em ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 quay l\u1ea1i, em c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 em c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng hay l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t. Em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u00e0 tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 bao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>Sau khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf \u0111i, em s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu qu\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 cho em n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a th\u00ec em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i. Song c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 b\u00f3 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4n, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 em c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3 g\u00ec, c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n con th\u01a1 n\u00ean m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c, c\u00f4 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i em \u0103n h\u1ecdc h\u1ebft l\u1edbp 12. Ng\u00e0y em \u0111i thi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng c\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi em r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u1eeb nay ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 lo cho ch\u00e1u, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\u201d. Em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u00f4! Nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi bu\u1ed3n, t\u1ee7i v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. 18 n\u0103m qua, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i b\u00e1n v\u00e9 s\u1ed1. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n thu ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a em v\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 bao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i \u1ea5m gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n lo ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y em ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn bao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba m\u1eb9 \u00f4m \u1ea5p trong v\u00f2ng tay y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn. Em r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n, em t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi v\u00ec sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Song, ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i em v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n ch\u00fat may m\u1eafn khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, c\u00f2n c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec3 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 gi\u00fap em v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ec3 em v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p c\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a n\u1ed9i, c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, trong 12 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng em lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 thi \u0111\u1eadu v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc S\u01b0 Ph\u1ea1m K\u1ef9 Thu\u1eadt ng\u00e0nh C\u00f4ng Ngh\u1ec7 K\u1ef9 Thu\u1eadt H\u00f3a H\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi em \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ea7y gian lao m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 em \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn nghi\u1ec7t ng\u00e3, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i em r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp s\u1ee9c cho em trong 4 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Em \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u00e0 em s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc trong 4 n\u0103m m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n? Em r\u1ea5t mong nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb qu\u1ef9 h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng VNHelp \u0111\u1ec3 em ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn, ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp s\u1ee9c cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn, g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 em v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<p>Em xin ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1m \u01a1n qu\u1ef9 h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng VNHelp \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf ra cho em v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda nh\u01b0 trong truy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ch\u1eafp c\u00e1nh \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng!<\/p>\n<p>Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n D\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><b>Essay by Nguyen Van Duong, submitted with the application for VNHelp scholarship, 2015-2019<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I would like to share with you the story of my life. This is the story that I was told by my family and neighbors when I was old enough to\u00a0grasp the meaning of my origin. Shortly after my birth, when I was about 20 days old, my mother abandoned me without giving any reason. Then my father followed my mother\u2019s footsteps and also left me and his own family. Again, no one understood the reason for his departure.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since, I have been haunted by a single question. I ask myself, my grandmother, my aunt and everyone around me all these years: \u201cWhy? Why did my parents leave me?\u201d Until now, I still have no answer. After eighteen years, my mother and father have never returned. I do not know if they are alive or dead. I have no photo of my parents. I have never seen my parents, not even once! The image of my mother appears only in dreams and my imagination\u2026 only in dreams can I pretend to enjoy the parental love that I never had.<\/p>\n<p>After my parents left, I lived with my grandmother. Then when my grandmother was too old and weak, one of my aunts took me in and cared for me. Like one torn leave that tries to cover another, we had little to share among ourselves. My aunt already had her hands full with her own children. She did the best that she could when she took me in, but she was only able to take care of me until I finished high school. On the day of my high school graduation, my aunt told me with tears in her eyes, \u201cI have done everything that I can for you, and now you must take care of yourself going forward.\u201d Truly, I was so very grateful for my aunt! But at the same time, I felt a deep sadness and quiet desperation swelling inside. For 18 years, to support myself through school, I have been selling lottery tickets. This has been my work that generates the main income for myself and my grandmother.<\/p>\n<p>My one and only wish is to be able to attend college. I always dream of having a family love and support so that I could concentrate on my education. Every day, I see other children who are dropped off and picked up at school by their parent. I see other children cared for and embraced by their families. I often wonder why it is that the simplest things in life, things that everyone can take for granted, are simply not in my reach. Nevertheless, when I think more deeply, I come to realize that I can still be thankful to have my grandmother and my aunt, someone that I can lean on. This thought gives me the driving force and the courage to carry on with my daily life. It helps me to overcome so many obstacles, particularly the emotional challenges that I face when I compare myself to my friends. To change fate and to return the love from my grandmother and my aunt, I must carry on with my education the best that I can. Passing the entrance exam at the [Polytechnic University] is probably considered a normal feat for most people. But for me, this is a huge achievement after a long journey and bitter struggle against my own fate. It is no small victory against the weaker side of my own self!<\/p>\n<p>Presently, I am full of worry because I have no family to support me during the 4 years of college. I will need to encounter the practical\u00a0challenges so that I can afford the 4 years of education. Will I need to drop out to earn a living? I very much hope that I will receive assistance from the VNHelp scholarship so that I can continue on my journey and change my destiny. I would like to be able to support my grandmother, become a productive citizen who contributes to society and, in particular, help other unfortunate people so that they can better themselves.<\/p>\n<p>I would like to express my sincere gratitude to VNHelp for making scholarships available to myself and other poor students. May it be a\u00a0door that will allow us to transform ourselves and make our most fantastic dreams come true.<\/p>\n<p>Respectfully yours,<\/p>\n<p>Nguyen Van Duong<\/p>\n<p><i>Translated by Jill Nguyen<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Please scroll down for the English version B\u00e0i lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n D\u01b0\u01a1ng &#8211; SV Khoa C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c Tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110H S\u01b0 Ph\u1ea1m K\u1ef9 Thu\u1eadt SG kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc 2015 &#8211; 2019 Em mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh em. 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